When working on your relationship it is a good idea to remember that “success breeds success.”
With this in mind, you can use this exercise to help you decide which issues in your relationship are important to both of you, and can also be addressed relatively easily.
Make two copies of this exercise, one for you and one for your partner.
Then compare your answers and discuss a common issue than is a high priority and is relatively easy to change.
Every relationship is unique, and people come together for many different reasons. Part of what defines a healthy relationship is sharing a common goal for exactly what you want the relationship to be and where you want it to go. And that’s something you’ll only know by talking deeply and honestly with your partner.